Being Responsible for the Good Stuff Too

Take a Bow!

Recently someone complained to a friend that I was egotistic. Indeed from her perspective it is true. While in a conversation, I stated I was really good at something.

We have been taught to take responsibility for being stupid, making mistakes or being unkind. As spiritually mature adults we get to be responsible for our successes too. 

 

For too long it has been ok to acknowledge only our faults.

We appear humble then. That’s the game. However, many reveal a fault to have others rush in to rescue them, to bolster them and tell them they are wonderful.

It’s ok to have others acknowledge your abilities but oh dear, you’re egotistical if you do it yourself! Why? It’s just an old pattern of not seeing ourselves as whole, remaining separate from our true self. It’s part of the game of false humility. 

Once you recognize you are part of God. Creator, Oneness, how can you deny any aspect of yourself? 

The intent behind your comments: ego, false modesty, separation or higher awareness, may be interpreted wrongly. It matters not. It is simply perception and as spiritually aware humans it is our job to allow all perceptions. 

I must insure the intent behind my self awareness comment arises from acknowledgement of the Source within.

Know you are related to, part of and irrevocably connected with god, creator, oneness, whatever you want to call it. Relax into it. 

Stop being less. 

Claim being positive, good, whole and One. 

Your awareness affects everything. Don’t verbalize your fears and less-than feelings until they become your persona. Become even more by embracing all you really are, in wholeness. See the creator in otherselves too. This will anchor the paradigm shift for the next step in human nature. This is your accountability for being a piece of God, Oneness, Allness, Creator. 

The old rituals, traditions and rules aligned your body and life and were sustained by the old energies. Those old energies are gone, literally gone. Set new traditions of alignment with the new energies.

The New Alignments

Create enlightenment traditions that will set standards for the future. 

Traditions are made by humans and it’s time to rewrite them. Base them in joy and love and you cannot be wrong. Base them not in subservience, lack, insecurity or fear. That was the old paradigm. You have only to look at myriad familiar rituals, memorized catechisms and songs in every belief to see the hidden triggers fostering hierarchy and separation. 

With new traditions there’ll be no judgment, no ego, no hierarchy or separation. We will exalt being balanced, comfortable and enlightened within our own amazing selves as an aspect of Allness.

 Instead of losing ourselves in a greater awareness, we can acknowledge our excellence and individuality.

Unique aspects of the Whole

So we can say “I’m a good artist.” or “I created that fabulous meal.” and be even with it. Sure, some will not agree with your declaration and that’s ok too. But help set the new energies in claiming your godself.

Instead of humanizing god, godify the Human! That is the more accurate new tradition to create.

You are more than you know.

A Breath of Fresh Air

This week someone asked me what I see for the coming year. In general I see there will be scattered pockets of joy and fear, abundance and poverty. This is the very real time of creating our own experiences based on staying aware, conscious and open. Which one will we choose to be in? It is literally our choice.

A dear friend’s husband was just laid off. In her email she said “Wahoo! A vacation!!!” Now THAT’s attitude! Such attitude will bring another excellent job soon.

Recently I had a conversation about a mutual friend. Just by talking about things, I could see a custody battle and lawsuit coming up, an increase in income and many other surprises. Months later it all turned out to be true and our mutual friend now wishes he’d had a conversation with me too. Why? Because he wished he’d been prepared for what was coming.

The most personal information comes when you and I have just such a conversation. Mental pictures freely download into my consciousness with insights into the twists and turns of events to come. Nuances are shown to me in visions and metaphoric images
Our own minds play hide and seek with information we are too afraid to look at. Not that it will be bad, we’re just afraid it might be, so we hide from knowing.

With me, you’ll be getting a reading from someone who is not afraid to look and who receives insight that can be most helpful in getting unstuck and being prepared.

It’s like opening a window for fresh air.

These times of change are amazing and exciting. The changes will be different for each person based on their personal veil of love and self worth and fear. This is what we discover in a session.

A breath of fresh air can happen over the phone, in an office or a restaurant and usually involves a cup of tea too! Fresh air is very healing.

I look forward to our heart to heart conversation with insights.

Healing Little Wars

Lately I have noticed so many little eruptions of ‘war’ between people. I see flare ups with people defending a position, lines drawn in the sand. I was caught up in a couple of my own. Each triggered an incendiary reaction in me: fireworks anger!

The Rude Response
The first example was an unloving and unsolicited rude comment. It reminded me of the abuser saying “I’m only hitting you because I love you.” I immediately removed the person from my contacts, energetically killing them. I was at war. Then I wrote my scathing response and sent it to someone else, a good friend who would let me ‘throw up’ on her and still laugh and allow my anger.

What I Needed
All the while I knew I needed to get back to Love. I had to somehow convert these feeling of anger, resentment and betrayal to love. I know all the tricks but I was caught up in the feelings… stuck and reveling in them. I was sick. I needed help.

The Story Line
When you tell an ugly story more than three times, that story owns you. I did not want to let it become like a bad cold and take root in me. I needed to get rid of this sniffle right away. So first, I threw up by writing my unloving response and dumping all my anger in a healthy way. I got it out of my system. I didn’t stuff it and let it fester. And I sent it… but to a friend. I called my true blue friend the next day. Instead of “Hello” she said “Send the letter to that bastard! He deserves it!” You gotta love such unconditionally supportive friends. We laughed big time.

Already Cured
You see, by then I was cured! And within twenty four hours! It was fascinating to watch myself as to whom I selected to tell this outrage. I was afraid there was some truth in it and I wanted only support. Aren’t we sneaky? I had called another friend in England with my story. My wonderful Brit friend never thinks she knows enough or counsels well, but she has taught me so much through just being her authentic emotional self. She quoted an old teacher “I love you unconditionally, but I may not always trust you.” Well, that did it. I realized that was my how to regain a loving state.

Loving Doesn’t Mean Being Stupid
I could be totally loving but aware that I was unable to trust this person. I didn’t have to lie in the middle of the road and get run over by any more rude comments. It didn’t even matter if the comments were true. This was how to love again. I could breathe again. It was all about my reactions. It was about what I chose that told more about me to myself than anything else would have. I was proud of me. That ugly, icky feeling was gone.

The Bank Error
In the second situation, my bank charged me incorrectly. No one there would take responsibility. I dug in and began my calling campaign to resolve it. I was at war. Bad me. I needed help fast. I had to shift back to love. But how? Ok, I know the secrets, the ways and the methods. This time, after my third upsetting phone call, I did Ho’oponopono on the situation and let go. I let it do its magic.

Ho’oponopono
When I say I did Ho’oponopono, I mean I simply said the little prayer that reminds us we are all One and whatever is happening is because it is an aspect of us that we have chosen to be reminded about and to heal now. It goes like this.
“Creator (that’s YOU, since all is One and nothing is outside of the greater You.)
Please remove whatever it is within me that has created this situation.
I am truly sorry.
I ask forgiveness.
I thank you. (You again)
I love you.” (You again)

Miracles
Shortly, I received a phone call from the bank manager totally resolving the situation. I have seen amazing things with Ho’oponopono. It is applied to the situation, not the person. It is about Oneness and healing the self, which once healed is reflected in all those around you.

My sister managed apartments. One resident became verbally abusive about a parking situation. She immediately did Ho’oponopono on the situation. She was smart enough not to even bother with getting angry. Within an hour the man came in apologizing profusely.

War
War begins with you. The big wars in our world can be alleviated little by little because you heal a situation with your neighbor, business associate or friend. Start small. It’s really huge work you will be doing. Healing your self, healing the planet, it’s all the same.

You are the key.

A Breath of Fresh Air 2010

This is the year of Transparency. What was hidden will be revealed. Personal and global revelations will surprise, shock and delight us. This is the time of creating our very next step only a moment before it happens. We must stay conscious and open.

A dear friend’s home recently burned down. She exclaimed “I’m free! I can start over!!!” Now THAT’s attitude! Her next step will surely provide the perfect home.

Recently I had a conversation about a mutual friend. Just by talking about things, I could see a custody battle and lawsuit coming up, an increase in income and many other surprises. Later it all turned out to be true and our mutual friend now wishes he’d had a conversation with me too. Why? Because he wished he’d been prepared for what was coming.

The most personal information comes when you and I have just such a conversation. Mental pictures freely download into my consciousness with insights into the twists and turns of events to come. Nuances are shown to me in visions and metaphoric images.

Our own minds play hide and seek with information we are uneasy about. Not that it will be bad, we’re just fearful so we hide from knowing.

With me, you’ll get a reading from someone who is not afraid to look and who receives insights that help get you unstuck and prepared.

It’s like opening a window for fresh air. This new year and these amazing times of change are exciting.

Schedule your breath of fresh air and we’ll have a cup of tea too. We can talk over the phone or in my office. Fresh air is very healing.

I look forward to our heart to heart conversation with insights.

Dolly Mae
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