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Tuesday, February 22, 2011

The Psychic Gift

Many people think a psychic is a fortune teller, but the gift of ‘seeing’ goes far beyond something so simple. You each have the ability should you choose to develop it and that merely means to trust it and allow it; but your own fears stand in the way. So what is an easy way to get past your fear? Just love yourself. Most of all our problems, fears and personal judgments come from not loving ourselves.

Our sacred institutions teach us that the best way to live is to love others, deny self and sacrifice. But the Source of all this guidance is a Being of such unconditional love that no fault is judgable; no action is outside or beyond the realm of constant love. The awareness of such a Being is the knowing that you are unique and divinely created. You are the proof.

There can never be another you. You are the pinnacle of your life’s existence. You are the culmination of millions of years of evolution of the physical, emotional, mental and spiritual you. No one else can do you. You are it. So be you. You are your perfect gift to the universe. Your worth lies in your beingness, not in your accomplishments. So go ahead, achieve success, but in alignment with a conscious awareness of where your true value lies, in your existence, not in your bank account balance, not in your perfect marriage, not in your well aerobicized body, but in the miracle of your existence.

When you were born and came fresh from the womb, there was wonder in the miracle of you. That is still there, but if you are looking for acclaim of the wonders of you, outside of yourself, you have lost the point. It is within you, always ready to shine forth as you bring conscious focus to it in your daily life.

Each time you choose to align with the vibration of love in a tough situation instead of anger, resentment, fear or frustration, you choose for Love. In doing so, you become the Light for others. You don’t have to go anywhere, do anything or win in any manner; you already have ‘won’ by your very existence. No one else can ever be you; you ARE DOING it perfectly.

Many people ask me “How did you become psychic?” They expect an answer that will be so shocking and beyond their ability they can remain asleep, reinforced in their fearful belief that they are less than. But I tell you we are no different in our potential. I would rather regale you with my many great disasters and failures so you can believe yourself better if that will encourage you to own your own power and awaken your potential.

Some of you are awakening and feel a deep gut level urge that there is more to this reality, but have yet to take the second step on the seekers path. Begin to read, take a class, meditate. No step is wrong. Just choose again and again until you find passion. Feed that hunger that food won’t satisfy. You, your fears, your hopes, your intimate moments, your aliveness, your reason for existence, your relationship to God and to the Universe are the most interesting topics imaginable to you. Don’t deny it. We are fascinated by ourselves; and rightly so.

We are the conscious, communicating expressions of Divinity. We cannot do it wrong. We can only make choices that hurt the physical us, never the spiritual. That is the part of us that we don’t talk about because it is too intimate, too personal, too mushy; especially those of us who think we have to express more masculine energy in our self control and in our business world. Our spiritual aspect is the most precious part of ourselves. It is the real us.

It is the reason we go into relationships, to find out who we are in relationship to something else. When we find out we are not being ourselves, not being who we really want to be in a relationship, we disconnect from it, and needfully so. We then get on with the next relationship to learn another aspect of who we really are, to choose a new way, a new us. But most of the time we don’t take the opportunity for the growth and change offered in these new relationships. It’s safer to fall in to old patterns, and so we get hurt again; but only until we wake up to our own inner strength by being ourselves. It starts by loving ourselves first instead of criticizing or judging.

We are grand beings of magnificence and beauty. Our individual capacity to love is only equaled by the love Creator/Oneness/Isness has for us. We each wait for that one special person to come into our lives and love us. Don’t wait. Practice loving with your whole being, from your heart, in each moment. Start by loving yourself. You are a miracle of creation and worthy of the Love. Each moment is the place to choose; love or not.

My greatest teacher said “Joy is always a choice.” I finally understood it when one night in his audience I was thinking of all the process servers coming to my home daily to serve foreclosure notices on me. I couldn’t face them anymore, the shame and humiliation was too much. I would hide by my door in my home unable to answer the bell one more time, to swallow pride and be shamed yet again. Then as I thought those things, I heard the teacher say “In any moment you can choose joy.” And so I got it. I thought to myself. “Do you mean that when the process servers are delivering such terrible news, often several times daily, that I could actually choose joy? If so, then I’ll do it. NOT TRY, DO. So the next day I greeted the process server with joy in my heart and he told me a happy story of its being his anniversary and the surprise he planned for his wife. How amazing. All my fears were gifted with boundless love and joy because I had chosen it.

So too can you, in each now moment, choose joy or choose fear. One aligns with the true unconditional love of Creator, the other with your own fear and decision to not align with love. It is always your choice. Choose consciously that which speaks to the highest part of you and you will always choose well.

The gift of love begins and ends with you. It is bestowed by you and received by you. Love is your Light; keep shining it.