Grasping What 5th Dimension Is

Thank heavens for email. People sit, ponder and ask. Here’s one you might enjoy.

Dear Dolly,

I still can't seem to grasp going into the 5th Dimension. It’s more a feeling isn't it? I mean I get a feeling of complete contentment and joy and sometimes bliss but it just happens. I am still finding it difficult to hold it in my reality. Is this what you call 5th dimension? Before I even started to become aware I always thought we could have heaven on earth. I couldn't see why not. People thought I was nuts, but isn’t that exactly what ascension is about. It’s very exciting. E

Dear E,

The idea of the 5D (fifth dimension) being a place of complete contentment depends on your perspective. It’s still business as usual for most people. But with an uplifted perspective as we view our surroundings, we can achieve that reality for our individual selves. It might feel like being in the eye in the storm. No matter what is happening around us, we remain in our perspective of allowance and joy and light. That is the individually created ‘heaven’.

We can do that now, in each moment. It is ours to choose. Seek allowance within. It is a beginning. Seek to see things in a new way. Eventually, as we evolve, moving through the levels of 5D, like notes in an octave, we will achieve such peace and contentment in our mass consciousness. The more each person practices, the closer to the tipping point we come and that place of contentment will be the standard reality.

The hallmarks of 5D living are Choice and Perspective. 

Choose over and over to be the path of Love, Joy and contentment; not to have it in the future, but to BE it now. Choose often and consciously. Practice choosing until it becomes your true expressed nature. Indeed it is truly your unexpressed soul’s nature.

We are headed towards that overall heaven on earth you speak of, but it takes more awakened consciousness of more human beings. We are getting amazing help from sky friends (aka ETs), fabulous channelers, more internet information sources and more light of higher vibration available on the planet. There are new genetics in children and in others who have been continually choosing this path. We are growing into expanded versions of ourselves. This is what was called ascension.

None of this enlightenment is really new; it is our awareness of it that makes it seem so. Thus it is available to us.

All potential genetic coding, intuitive awareness, our expanded selves, clairsentience, clairvoyance, clairaudience and other enlightened abilities, is already within us.

It is all about perception and practice, not arrival. There is no place to go. There is just a new perception of what is your Beingness. You are unleashing the power within you that is already there. This moves us into unity consciousness through allowance of all perspectives.

Unity consciousness is about seeing God in each ‘other self’. Each is an aspect of oneself. Ascension puts us in the mindset of Being in the heaven of our perspective. If you still hate your neighbor or blame your parents for their behaviors; then you are not in your own heaven. Your separation from your ‘other selves’ is what keeps your perspective 3D. Your allowance ushers in the broader, higher, wider version of 5D.

It’s your perspective and your choices… over and over. This is the most important work you will ever do and the one you came here to be.

Does this help?

To Tell or Not To Tell

As a psychic, I am often asked what I do with information I get about the potential for trouble for someone else. Do I have to inform the person they may be facing a difficulty shortly?
I do not, for several reasons.

Sacred Individuality
To understand this seeming lack of caring, please understand I believe each of us is a master. This is sacred and inviolable; a prime directive. Each of us is the creator of our own individual realities. If someone is on a path of self destruction, that is their right. And it is only a potential. Everything can change. No one knows better how to live a life than the individual soul. You would not want someone, even well intentioned, to interfere with your life choices. We love our parents but at some point we want them to stop giving us advice. We want to blaze our own trail. Our individuality is sacred, guided by our own soul’s plan as we created it while still in spirit form. A person may have to hit bottom before awakening. If we keep giving them parachutes, they may not reach their turning point.

Disempowerment
To interfere with another’s life is to disempower them. It says “You are living wrong and I know how to run your life better than you do.” I may see important things about someone. So do you. But unless and until they ask you for help, clarification or input, they are not ready to hear it. Good intentions often translate as rescue. And rescuers need victims. They need them to validate their identity as rescuers. Although it makes the rescuer feel good, it reinforces victim mentality in others. It is not your responsibility or your right to change others.

The gift
I know you are thinking what about those who can’t help themselves. There is a healthy and an unhealthy way to assist. Mother Theresa’s gift was to see others as whole, not as victims. In placing herself in the heart of such neediness, she was a light for those in the dark. Light does not judge. It doesn’t intend to save others. Light does not inflict. It is simply available, impartial, and present. Let this be our guide.

Seeing Mastery in Others
To see even those lying in the gutter face down as magnificent masters is to empower them. Consciousness is a living thing, communicated even without action. They know how you feel about them. Helping someone who stumbles is a natural act born of the understanding we are all One and s/he who stumbles is in truth You. But to prolong the queries of “are you alright now” while sending unspoken communication of “you poor thing” is disempowering. Authentic help is love and needs no reward or acknowledgement. It is impartial, available and present.

Motivation
Pay attention to your motivations as you see others. For example, take the street beggar. Do you avoid them with a “get a job” thinking? Do you see a victim? Do you give them money fearing it could be you or resentfully, haughtily, impersonally? Can you look them in the eye as an equal and be loving with composure and calmness? Your motivations are as important as their circumstances. Their beingness is a gift to you to for self awareness. Through their simple act of being in their situation, they have volunteered, on a higher level, to be a nudge to your consciousness to look at the Oneness of all things in a compassionate and even handed way. These angels of the streets have chosen to be a gift to you. When you come across such an angel, go within to determine your own impulses to give or not give.

Judgment
However you act, there is no judgment but what you place on yourself. No one else knows your internal thinking and feeling process. Great compassion may simply beam love to them, or connect with a word, a touch. Kindness can mean more than money. If that street angel is playing the role of a victim, that is their concern. You do not have to reinforce it by responding as a rescuer. Be even. Be aware. Be conscious. It is such a little thing, but huge in impact.

Crossroads
I have always figured that if God/Goddess does not swoop in to rescue someone, neither should I. Acknowledging each as creator seems to honor the Creator in each of us. If you really want to know something you will ask. First, go within and ask yourself. If you do not receive clarity, there are other choices. Let go of the need to know. Learn how to find clarity. Ask someone. When we are at a crossroads, it is good to open windows and get a fresh perspective.

Compassion
Wordlessly compassion speaks “I feel your pain. I honor your journey. I see you as Creator, a Master. Blessings on your path.” Our job is to love. Love people as they already are, not as they could be, should be or might be. Love yourself first. Fill your own cup of self, a drop at a time until you overflow. Such freely expressed love blesses everyone and everything.

Refrain and Validate
It is a hard thing to refrain from giving advice when not asked. We do it all the time in conversations with friends. Listen to yourself. When a friend tells you of their pain, be compassionate, loving, validating. Acknowledge their feelings. Save your advice for only when you are asked. I often compare this to a child throwing up. You pet their head, make loving comments, touch their back, validate, coo, love. You do not start giving advice. They are in the process of disgorging something painful. Allow their process. Hold your well intentioned advice until they ask for it. It’s tricky, but you will both be better (more empowered) for the experience.

Divine Timing
If someone is facing a potential crisis, I believe their consciousness aligns with Divine Timing and they will either avoid the experience or embrace it depending on their highest and best path. It would be presumptuous of me to interfere with their creation.

In summary, open yourself to knowing and feeling. Seek to understand your own motivations. See others as perfect creators no matter what their situation. See yourself that way too. You don’t have to share what you know or be validated for it. In your own life ask for input when you are ready. Allow others to do the same. To tell or not to tell; it’s up to you.

A Breath of Fresh Air 2010

This is the year of Transparency. What was hidden will be revealed. Personal and global revelations will surprise, shock and delight us. This is the time of creating our very next step only a moment before it happens. We must stay conscious and open.

A dear friend’s home recently burned down. She exclaimed “I’m free! I can start over!!!” Now THAT’s attitude! Her next step will surely provide the perfect home.

Recently I had a conversation about a mutual friend. Just by talking about things, I could see a custody battle and lawsuit coming up, an increase in income and many other surprises. Later it all turned out to be true and our mutual friend now wishes he’d had a conversation with me too. Why? Because he wished he’d been prepared for what was coming.

The most personal information comes when you and I have just such a conversation. Mental pictures freely download into my consciousness with insights into the twists and turns of events to come. Nuances are shown to me in visions and metaphoric images.

Our own minds play hide and seek with information we are uneasy about. Not that it will be bad, we’re just fearful so we hide from knowing.

With me, you’ll get a reading from someone who is not afraid to look and who receives insights that help get you unstuck and prepared.

It’s like opening a window for fresh air. This new year and these amazing times of change are exciting.

Schedule your breath of fresh air and we’ll have a cup of tea too. We can talk over the phone or in my office. Fresh air is very healing.

I look forward to our heart to heart conversation with insights.

Dolly Mae
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Be yourself. Everyone else is taken.
-Oscar Wilde-