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Showing posts with label Gratitude. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Gratitude. Show all posts

Monday, January 15, 2018

Why you came to Earth

Why You Came To Earth
 

Questions from my email inbox:

Q: I believe we planned this life carefully with advisors and spirit guides, our mentors. How do my 3D experiences fit into the way I planned this incarnation before I was born.

Between incarnations we plan our next lives. We set out guidelines for emotional and soul experiences for the purpose of growth. It's a general plan. Then we get here and lo and behold you are a sister or brother to your murderer in a past life. Wow, there's an opportunity for growth and forgiveness! You planned well. You may not actually remember the murder but you take an instant dislike to that sibling. You must learn from it. It is your great teacher.  
Each incident is constructed by us after we incarnate in this great stage play called life. We can change them based on the growth we achieve here. We're pretty powerful. To the extent we wake up and learn from all the catalysts we encounter, we can change things, but most importantly we can change our attitude toward things. Gratitude, joy, forgiveness and love are optional responses to all catalysts.
Q: So did I carefully select to come to a planet to be a part of a species that is both a destroyer and being destroyed. Is that the lesson itself?

A: You came here this time to add your energy, love, beingness, consciousness and intentions to ascension for all sentient beings. As many as possible will thus be assisted and supported in awakening and in turn help raise others’ vibrations to move beyond this 3D experience.

We are creating the new time lines (realities) for ourselves. It takes a lot of us to get this job done. There are others who prefer different timelines that would greatly delay our growth/ascension.

Our ascension has reverberations for endless galaxies of beings beyond our knowing who will also benefit because of us. They know that when we ascend (raise our vibrations to achieve 5D, but remain on this planet) that we affect them too, essentially assisting , supporting and  changing their time lines too, but no one yet knows how it will look for them. Our entire solar system will increase its vibrations and ascend also. We are living in amazing times.

You volunteered to be here now and I’m very glad you did. Your energy is needed.

Q: Is there karma I’m reaping for being an earth and animal consumer?

A: You don't reap Karma for being an animal eater. There is always rebalancing and rethinking going on and a chance to do things differently, to move up in our vibrations. We did as we were taught and followed others' examples. Eventually we learn the concepts as in 'Oh yeah, meat lowers our vibrations' so we choose vegetables and fruits, nuts and seeds more often. You now become an example for others.

Likewise we choose loving responses instead of judgment more often. There are so many opportunities to become more loving.

Karma is just a thing like religion that keeps us feeling wrong, fearful and disempowered. You wouldn't make your kids feel bad over and over, including in the next life, if they did something wrong. Neither would the Infinite Creator do it to one of its creations! Wrongness is just a teaching that has consequences so we can choose differently in the next now.
It’s important to be wrong to know what it feels like and thus choose differently next time.

This lifetime is very important and is about raising consciousness first last and always. Your passion, your caring, your thoughts and your search for awareness are what is important.

When you shift your thinking internally it will be reflected in things and people and choices around you. Even if you don't actually teach it, you will be an example of it, which is way cool and highly transformative for others.


Q: I wonder if aliens are evolving beings also, do they have incarnations? It would seem reasonable.

A: Yes aliens are evolving and have incarnations. Many remember their past lives and a lot of the awareness they achieved in those lifetime. Many live thousands of years.

The Tibetans have a goal to make every thought loving. Pretty worthwhile, isn’t it.
We are way more powerful than we think. Together we can change this planet. We can join our minds and hearts with those who seek peace, joy and love in groups or in our individual meditations. Make these your intentions. And so we awaken.

                                         

                                          Choose Joy, It's always an Option!



Dolly Mae is an intuitive consultant. Schedule a Breath of Fresh Air session
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Thursday, October 8, 2009

MANAGING STRESS

My friends want to go bankrupt. Their house has become a noose aroundtheir necks, mortgaged for more than they can sell it. Stress and worry are their daily practice. They can change it. Here’s how.

1000 Thoughts
It's the little things that count. You stress, worry and move into fear 1000 times a day. So you create fear and worry as a focus, so the universe complies and brings you more fear and worry. The law of attraction works perfectly. Wake up and pay attention to your thoughts and feelings as often as you can every day. You will directly affect what happens in your life. Choose what emotion you would like to be in. Don’t let your mind run away into Negative-ville. Choose 1000 times a day. Those little things will add up to a wholesome, healthy and happy you.

The Now
Stay in the present moment as much as possible. Ask yourself: Am I safe NOW? Validate what you have, not what you don’t have: a roof over your head, food, health, cleanliness, safety, friends, and possibilities. This will become your focus: the now moment.

Worry’s Has No Value
Stop worrying that your house might burn down or you might be hit crossing the street. It does only damage to your mind, body and spirit. Worry cannot add one jot to your joy or length of life. It can only be destructive, trapping your mind in an endless loop of negativity. It is needless and extremely self abusive to let your mind run willy-nilly out of control into these polluted thoughts.

Take Control.
Decide what you will and will not focus on. Thoughts, fears and worries may come unbidden, but you can say to them, I'm not focusing on you today. I am choosing to bring joy into my life. I know where following these thoughts will lead me. I'm heading into joy. I'm choosing to walk in the light. I'm choosing to create my reality in the best way I know how.

Pollyanna
This is NOT blissful ignorance or Pollyanna thinking. This is choice for what you desire. What you focus on you will get more of. Those little thoughts all day long are under your control. You can focus on fear of illness or focus on health. You can focus on lack of funds or on abundance. For surely somewhere in your life you can find and be grateful for health and abundance.

Freedom From Fear
The fastest way to change things is to be grateful for something and then feel the positive emotions of that gratitude. Focus on possible joys instead of possible problems. It’s an option! The more energy you put into being grateful now, this very moment, visualizing and feeling into delicious events happening, you will begin to create those things in your life. The choice is yours. What do you have to lose? Only your fears. Hang them up on the bedpost at night. They will be there in the morning if you really want them back. You’ll get a good night’s sleep, free of fears.

Choose! Joy is always an option!

P.S. My friends have decided to work through their money issues and reprioritize their spending habits. It will work. They now have the mind set for it. Their focus has become joy and abundance!